Love Advice - 3 Keys For True Love

May 28, 2009 | By admin In Love Relationship Problems |

by Johnnie S Laney

We all are wired physically with intimacy needs. We all want true
love in our lives. It is something that we hope for and dream about.

So we finally get into a relationship, things are great for a while,
we feel some sense of true love, we are very hopeful. But then, true
love seems to start slipping away. This person we love starts to lose
their luster, we start to notice little things about them that bother
us, or vice versa, they start to get bothered by us. In time we can
start to argue and further on we can break up or get a divorce.

Keeping true love is much harder than finding it, isnt it? If not,
wed still be with our first high school crush. So what can you do to
keep true love? There are many things.

The first thing is to realize that there are phases to all
relationships. The honeymoon "there's only you" phase will not last.
The next phase is the me/us period, where separation and getting on
with your own goals starts to become important. But true love isn't
gone in this phase, it just changes its feel.

A second important factor for keeping true love is to understand that
there needs to be a balance between giving and receiving. You can't
do all the giving or all the receiving. You both have to give and
take. If you don't, you will kill off true love.

A third important factor to keeping true love alive is simple yet very
powerful. This factor is PLAY. The more you play with your mate, the
closer and more intimate you will feel. Too often the burdens of
adulthood take over our lives and we forget to make time to play with
our mate.

Do you have a regular date night? Do you have a few things you enjoy
doing together? Playing together may be hard if youve gotten out of
the habit, but with a little attention you can start to bring some
back. And studies have shown the more play the less fighting and
conflict. Play is good!

So keeping true love is a work in progress. Dont give up because it
is challenging at times. Pay attention to true love and keep focused
on giving it some of what it needs on a regular basis. And keep
learning. The more you learn about it the more of it you will have.

About the Author: You can learn much more about this in the free
course 7 Vital Relationship Insights You Never Were Taught In School
at Relationship Advice [1]. Johnnie S Laney teaches relationship and
emotional intelligence courses and you can get more here Intimacy
Relationship Help [2].

Links:
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[1] http://4relationshipadvicehelp.com
[2] http://4RelationshipAdviceHelp.com/Relationship_Advice_Help_3_Intimacy_Keys.html